Divorcing? Should You Seek Therapy Before Consulting A Lawyer?


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Some couples about to divorce go to the solicitor before they exhaust their options. Once they go to the solicitor they find themselves in different camps, receiving advice to protect their rights according to Man Made Law. However we know that the Universal Laws have prevalence over Man Made Law. When we don’t respect the Universal Laws we increase our suffering. One of these laws is that we need to combine the language of the soul, body and mind. Solicitors often speak the language of the mind and logic… It is their training and profession.

Committing To Couple Therapy

There is a misunderstanding that couple therapy can only be done when two partners are willing to participate in the sessions. It is not true. When we talk with one person we intervene into the system. A competent systemic couple therapist would be able to do couple therapy with one partner present.

However even when both partners are present in the sessions but the level of commitment to therapy is different the more committed partner can get discouraged and stop using therapy effectively. These are all excuses for avoiding looking at ourselves honestly.

We can fool ourselves aggravating everything by following insensitive advice or by pretending to have been through therapy, but we cannot fool the Universal Law and we will eventually pay its price.

IMAGE:
Ed Yourdon

RESOURCES FOR THIS VIDEO:
Qualities of a Competent Couple Therapist: http://www.cated.org/cated-cat-egitimi-detay
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